Thursday, February 04, 2010
uncelebrated anniversary
A year ago today was Harland's last day of work at the Four Seasons. He informed me yesterday that this temporary turned permanent job has gone back to being temporary and this will be his last week. Laid off twice in two years...in the same week no less.
When Har was laid off last year, we weren't too worried. He received a nice severence package, we had a good tax return coming, and in my mom's words, "You have a roof over your heads and plenty of food in the kitchen." (My mom rocks, by the way.) In many ways last year was such a wonderful time for us. While Har looked for jobs we could still take care of our needs, we had him around all the time (have you heard he does laundry?), and we took several fabulous vacations (like this one or this one). Amazing, right?
Honestly, we're not too upset about this lay off. The paycheck just replaced the unemplyment check...did not improve it. No to mention that he'll have more freedom to do some hunting and interviewing for real jobs. This temp gig did get in the way of that.
This time around, we aren't planning vacations and we'll be budgeting tighter, but we're not complaining. We'll be praying for a job again, but a job that he likes going to and one that pays well enough that we can move into our own place. Aren't we supposed to be specific in our prayers?
Here's to another wonderful year...
Labels: harland, unemployment
Saturday, January 23, 2010
AB Unfiltered
I know what you're thinking, "AB has a filter?" Yes, yes I do. Lucky for you! However, there are a few people that have been in my life for long enough and in enough quantity that there is no use using the AB filter when I'm around them. They have seen me cry selfishly, grow spiritually, make mistakes, yell at their kids, fall in love, pack up my life with tears in my eyes, be oblivious to their needs...you get the idea. Not only have they seen the worst (and best) of AB, but they are still my friends! Honestly, I'm surprised they didn't ditch me a long time ago. Last weekend we celebrated Martin Luther King, Jr's birthday together by...well, by, um, doing nothing. Mostly, we hung out talking and let our children run free around us. It was the most relaxing weekend I've had in a long while. I love them and I know that they will still love me even after they see I've posted this unflattering picture of them both. (BTW: we need to stop taking pictures of the kids and take a few of ourselves)
Sunday, January 03, 2010
Reverence Child?!?
In our church/ward they ask a child to be on the stand before church as an example of how to be reverent when we enter Sacrament meeting. The child stands quietly with their arms folded for about 10 minutes as people come in and take their seats. When they called to ask if Nash could do this I was shocked. Our ward is light on small kids and Nash has a reputation... it's not necessarily a good one. Nonetheless, I accepted on his behalf.
Today was his big day. He reluctantly let me walk him to the front as we arrived (early!) and stood in front of the Bishop. Our very smart and loving Bishop, whose youngest is Nash's buddy, immediately showed Nash what to do and gave him some words of encouragement. We sat right in front hoping to help him out.
He smiled, waved to a few friends as they entered, played with his Superman tie a lot, but overall did a great job. As Brother Leishman (our Bishop's 2nd counselor) thanked "Superman Nash Carpenter" for his good example you could hear a chuckle roll through the chapel. If it had been any other meeting our loving ward family might have stood up and cheered. It only took a few minutes for him to be back in his seat asking questions at full volume, playing games with the cute girl sitting behind us, and generally just being Nash.
Those 10 minutes gave me shining hope for a day when it won't be so shocking that Nash is asked to be the reverence child.
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
CAUGHT!
Remember that show World's Dumbest Criminals? I loved watching videos of stupid people doing stupid things and then getting caught. There's something satisfying about seeing justice fulfilled.
I uploaded some pictures from my camera yesterday. Har & I were scrolling through fuzzy pictures of the dog, our dresser, the bathroom floor and wondering which of our child criminals got a hold of the camera when we came across this gem.....
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It's not as satisfying to catch your own child criminal...especially when they're so stinking cute.
Friday, December 18, 2009
One of these things is not like the other
Today is the last day of school for 3 whole weeks!
Weeaahapawhoee! (to steal Nash's latest saying)
At Dedan's Southern California elementary school (where the high is supposed to be in the 70s today) you'll find a wall full of snowglobe snowmen standing in their fields of snow with haiku poetry about snow.
But look closely and you'll see one snowman who is a little more active than the rest....
That's my boy!
Dedan's poem:
Cold, white snow slowly
landing on the tree branches
under the gray clouds.
Dedan's poem:
Cold, white snow slowly
landing on the tree branches
under the gray clouds.
Labels: Dedan's art, snowman
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Cruisin
How do I sum up 5 days and 4 nights of fun?
art by my favorite neighbor, Mike Morris
I have 175 pictures to pick from (yes, that's an average of 35 pictures each day), and that doesn't even include those we purchased on board!
If I posted everything I want about this amazing family vacation it would be like your annoying neighbors who invite you over for cocktails and a slide show of their trip to Europe. Snooze fest! - at least for those of you who didn't get to enjoy our getaway.
Highlights and Things I Learned On Vacation:
- Party of 26. Wait! No. Make that 30.
- Rocking cruise ships will make me puke.
- If there's a water slide & a heated pool then it doesn't matter that it's about 50 degrees outside.
- $10 for me & the kids to have lunch in Ensenada includes a seat overlooking the gorgeous coast.
- Sleeping in a cave (cabin with no windows) is the only way to get all 3 of my kids to sleep past 8 am.
- When given the option my boys will choose chicken nuggets, french fries and chocolate milk over lobster, steak, ribs, and/or various delicious, high end menu items.
- Tressa makes even a busted (no pun intended) dress look good.
- Chocolate melting cake - mmmm.
- Papa turned 64 surrounded by the children and grandchildren who love him...plus a whole dining room full of unknowing party participants.
- Gary sucks at Karaoke, but is definitely the most entertaining!
- J.R. is turning into her mother - a program, really?!
- Auntie Tressa may be most of the nieces/nephews "favorite", but Riley loves me!
- Nash created a look we like to call Mexican Taxi Cab Hair.
- My kids cannot get all their homework finished on a vacation.
- I can survive without a cell phone or the internet for nearly 5 days.
- They may all be freakishly tall, but I love my three little brothers.
Friday, November 27, 2009
Why I'm Tired, a pictorial essay
Wednesday
Made 3 batches of homemade rolls and preped the turkey. I got the idea to brine my turkey from a blog I occassionally read. To sum up: cooler, ice, salty, sweet, spiced up water, overnight.
Let's not forget the regular SAHM duties like making sure moments like this are caught for Nash's future wife to use as encouragement to get him to fix things.

Thursday
Kids were hanging from the rafters. Ok, so it was just my crazy brother, James (who drove in from Vegas unexpectedly) that would let his adrenaline junkie 18 month old do that. BUT we had plenty of kids who were so busy playing that they almost forgot to eat dinner...

...except Jackie. She wanted to go home. There was "nothing" for her to do at our house. The only thing she would eat was one of my homemade rolls. They are quite good.

We had lots of family and friends. Here's my adorable cousin, Shandra and boyfriend, Justin. She was my very first cousin...holds that special place in her heart.

Her brother, Phillip, and girlfriend, Jen are having a baby next summer! Congratulations!!!

Which will make these two GRANDPARENTS! Woohooo!
And my mom will finally be a Great Aunt. She's still got a way to go to catch up with me. We've got 3 great nieces on Har's side....just saying.
My Great Aunt Joan protects her namesake, Emma Joan, with her karate moves because...

Uncle James is trying to give Emma her birthday spankings...a week late.

Papa fell asleep in a chair in all the chaos. Must've been from the morning of vaccuum dog hairs off of everything before company came.

Or it could've been from this good stuff. We had 2 turkeys totalling 40 pounds and this is all that was left. Enough for a couple of sandwiches this weekend!
Thursday
Kids were hanging from the rafters. Ok, so it was just my crazy brother, James (who drove in from Vegas unexpectedly) that would let his adrenaline junkie 18 month old do that. BUT we had plenty of kids who were so busy playing that they almost forgot to eat dinner...
...except Jackie. She wanted to go home. There was "nothing" for her to do at our house. The only thing she would eat was one of my homemade rolls. They are quite good.
We had lots of family and friends. Here's my adorable cousin, Shandra and boyfriend, Justin. She was my very first cousin...holds that special place in her heart.
Her brother, Phillip, and girlfriend, Jen are having a baby next summer! Congratulations!!!
Which will make these two GRANDPARENTS! Woohooo!
My Great Aunt Joan protects her namesake, Emma Joan, with her karate moves because...
Uncle James is trying to give Emma her birthday spankings...a week late.
Papa fell asleep in a chair in all the chaos. Must've been from the morning of vaccuum dog hairs off of everything before company came.
Or it could've been from this good stuff. We had 2 turkeys totalling 40 pounds and this is all that was left. Enough for a couple of sandwiches this weekend!
Labels: Black Friday, family, Thanksgiving, turkey
Monday, November 23, 2009
THE BIG NEWS
It's not that these lovely Beehives welcomed Emma by "heart attacking" our house the night before her birthday,
or that she was so delighted (that was a given);

It's not that Emma got to be with her very best friend, Caitlyn, exactly where she wanted to be at her actual birth time on her actual birthday: Pirates of the Carribbean;

It's not that there are reindeer at Disneyland (who knew?!);
It's not that Emma got to be with her very best friend, Caitlyn, exactly where she wanted to be at her actual birth time on her actual birthday: Pirates of the Carribbean;
It's not that there are reindeer at Disneyland (who knew?!);
Monday, November 16, 2009
Why is this so hard for me?
Emma, my baby girl, turns 12 on Thursday. The Primary sang a birthday song to her yesterday in church. I started crying. I felt like an idiot for crying but I couldn't stop...until Dedan came over to me crying. Poor kid got my crybaby gene.
"I never cried for my sister's birthday before, Mom. I'm just so sad that she's leaving."
"She still lives with us, babe. She's just going to Young Women instead of Primary."
"I know! But I'm so sad. I will miss her in this class."
Me, too, baby. Me, too.
Sunday, November 08, 2009
Tween Scouts
This year I have the good fortune of being a co-leader for Emma's Girl Scout troop. Comparing them to their former selves of just a few months ago I can sense a something has happened recently. They've grown up. All of a sudden they're not the little girls they used to be. They're smarter, more thoughtful, and funnier (more funny?). Junior high has morphed them into....young ladies
Our meeting this month was putting together a package for a unit of soldiers serving in Iraq. They all brought excellent goodies to contribute to the package. The cards they made were creative and sincere. What a blessing for Emma to have such good friends!
Chloe, Amber, Olivia, Emma, Lacey - Kaylie wasn't here :(
Labels: friends, Girl Scouts, troops, tweens
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
Pirates & Pooh & Buzz...oh my
Halloween was fantastic. How could it not be when we were hanging with our Vista peeps?! Har and I were pirates....
...but compared to Knowltons we looked like cartoon pirates. Don't you love Har's unibrow?! And JP's pirate pimp hat!
Dedan loved playing the blood thirsty vampire and he looked extra spooky on the dark street when he would glide by, cape flowing behind him thanks to his Heelies. Amy (a non-dresser upper) said he reminded her of Voldemort in the Harry Potter movie where he was sucking the blood from unicorns.

BFFs, Caitlyn and Emma were adorable. Caits as Abby from NCIS (genius, right?!) and Ems as witch...the good kind that smiles, says "please" & "thank you" and wears bright orange.
SIDE NOTE: SEE HER CUTE TRICK OR TREAT BAG? MY KIDS EACH HAD ONE THAT I TRICKED MY MOM INTO SEWING FOR THEM.
I love this shot of the pirates escorting Buzz (Nash) and Pooh (Calleya).
SIDE NOTE: SEE HER CUTE TRICK OR TREAT BAG? MY KIDS EACH HAD ONE THAT I TRICKED MY MOM INTO SEWING FOR THEM.
Labels: costumes, Halloween, Hartungs, Knowltons, Trick or Treat
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